Without this foundation, convictions become mere personal preferences rather than expressions of spiritual truth.
How do you know if your convictions are set on the right foundation?
“The one who observes the day, observes it for the Lord; the one who eats, eats for the Lord, since he gives thanks to God; while the one who abstains, abstains for the Lord and gives thanks to God.” (Romans 14:6, Amplified Bible)
In Romans 14, Paul addresses the tension between Jews and Gentiles over cultural and religious practices, particularly those rooted in the Mosaic Law. The issues included dietary restrictions, holy days, and differing views on proper Christian behavior. This passage led me to reflect on the nature of convictions: what they are, where they come from, and how we navigate them as followers of Christ.
Convictions Are Rooted in a Desire to Honor God
Paul teaches in Romans 14:6 that convictions about food, drink, or holy days must flow from a genuine relationship with God. Without this foundation, convictions become mere personal preferences rather than expressions of spiritual truth.
A Genuine Relationship with God Shapes Convictions
I believe true convictions are formed when believers:
Know God through His Word
Seek Him in prayer
Follow the Holy Spirit’s guidance
Without these cornerstones, convictions can become rooted in cultural or moral norms rather than spiritual depth.
Navigating Differences in Convictions
So what happens when you meet other believers with convictions that differ from yours? The key is to start with yourself first. Here are a few personal reflection questions to help you examine your own heart:
Do God’s Word or cultural norms shape my convictions?
Am I seeking to honor God in all that I do? (2 Corinthians 13:5)
When encountering others who question your convictions, strive to give them the benefit of the doubt. Instead of judging their words, discern their heart. Consider:
What have they been through?
Is their statement coming from a place of hurt or encouragement?
It’s important to note that giving the benefit of the doubt doesn’t always resolve tensions. Sometimes, you may experience judgment. When this happens, respond by being a light:
Encourage unity.
Lead by example.
Pray for them (quietly, without making it about yourself).
Gently encourage their relationship with Jesus.
Never Finished Challenge
Spend time answering the reflection questions above for each of your convictions. Ask God to soften your heart and help you approach others with love and humility.
One more thing: When you are on a mission for the Kingdom of God, expect mission disruptors. These can come as distractions, opposition, or even judgment from others. Call it what it is, and fix your eyes on Jesus.
I’ve personally experienced this. There was a time when I couldn’t focus on my work because my team was so fixated on judging my relationship with Jesus that they refused to connect with the vision God had placed on my heart. It was incredibly discouraging. But even in moments like these, I’ve learned to rely on Him, knowing His purpose will prevail.
What does today say about God?
God Cares About What Matters Most: Relationship
God’s heart is for relationships, and He loves where your heart is. If your heart leads you not to drink coffee so you can rely on Him for your energy, He delights in that! If your heart leads you to enjoy coffee for a healthy energy boost to serve Him more effectively and think clearly for His glory, He loves that, too. (Keeping it healthy and respecting the law is essential, as we are called to honor authority.)
The fact that the Creator of the Universe intentionally cares about relationships inspires and empowers me to pursue Him more. He draws me in daily with His love and grace. Thank you, Jesus!